Protect What’s Important

Protect What’s Important

“You need boundaries” she said, “You really need stronger boundaries” I heard, “When are you going to set some boundaries?”, he asked. BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE A BI*%# Ummm, I don’t think so, I thought to myself.  If I have to ‘institute’ boundaries, that means I’ll...
50 Shades of Friends

50 Shades of Friends

I recently read a book about friendship.  We all have friends at different levels and they range from mere acquaintances to the people you trust to hold your deepest thoughts, hopes and dreams. MULTIPLE BEST FRIENDS My biggest take away is that all these friends serve...
My Cape is Torn

My Cape is Torn

Women have struggled and fought for a long time to become independent, and for the most part we have succeeded. INDEPENDENCE AT WHAT COST? This is especially true when you take into account that it really was a short time ago that here in America we were not...
Giving Ourselves Away

Giving Ourselves Away

When we are in relationship with a husband, partner, or child, even though no one is directly asking us to—we start giving ourselves away. being the ‘nice’ girl Over time, we have become conditioned that by being the “nice” girl or that by being overly...